Slyklaw

To move fluids from the machines i put an interface on the output (way better than import bus) and storage bus configured with the gas on wherever i want to move it.
Water use Sink and Pipez
 
Edit: i realized you want an infinite water supply to dump steam and refill boiler with water... Currently i haven't looked into that so i can't say an option for that yet. I'll look into that later today.
 
Note: Storage Bus is passive so it wont move things which already inside of your ME network. Whatever enters the network will try to move straight to the output of that storage bus, if the container already full it'll enter your network instead, so for that you have to use ways so it won't enter your network and won't affect transfer speed
 
Edit2: I'm so dumb, ID (integrated dynamics) can be set to inf transfer rate so that would be your water solution. Sink> ID> Reactor
Infinite transfer rate solved

Yes, the Pipez stop working on server reset. I don't understand how AE2 fixes that.

Hello, after testing both methods, 1st method doesn't work, and I believe it was not intended to work like that, the 2nd one works well for me, i don't know what have you done wrong, but it works fine for me, therefore these 2 "bugs" are a player fault as I can see and will not be eligible for a refund. but this time I'll let it pass and will only refund you 1 creative essence.
 
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Item Refunded, in a chest near your last location
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Island Rollback Complete.
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I should have specified more. The Interconnect recipes work fine in single player, but are missing in the server.