First things first I don't see why you have to manipulate our lives, if we joke about something (and we were not joking about rules but on a thing that you don't even know and you don't have the right to.) you have nothing to do with us, and you can't know of what we were actually talking about. You have to punish where you see serious stuff like PayPal Emails (and not messages, otherwise you'd have no reason to take action), Credit Card numbers, etc... And not a few words, but we do know that you don't like us, I cleared this point.
He did grief the town once, and he paid the unban so you are not supposed to ban him again. We're not dumb, we knew we had no chances left so we were playing ordinarily.
You are not allowed to blame us for our records, and you should have proofs about what you say.
When we donate for the unban we accept our punishment and we support the server, so this is something we do appreciate but we take the ban seriously instead. You can't say that we think we could get away with everything paying unbans, as they're limited. Last but not least, we've never threatened anyone of griefing his base.
If you take this offense as seriously as you say, I expect you to be reasonable reading what I've typed above.
If you were on my part, you'd recognize the satire in what I said, in addition to proofs you don't have.
Have a good day!